Fussy Babies

Honestly? People who are always so fussy and always seems to have issues with everything should be the one who make the decision and choose what they want to do, eat or go.

Don't ask someone else to decide and after that person tried his or her best to find something that could suit everyone comfortably especially the fussy one and ended up getting all the comment like, "isn't the other one better?".

Don't you realized people have better things to do but somehow they chose to spend a bit more time to do research and try to find out the best option to suits you especially??? And with you always like to give a somewhat negative remark at the end??? It is actually very hurtful. :(

Next time, the fussy ones should just decide it themselves and the rest just follow. End of story.

Telepathy, God's Whisper or Coincident?

What is Telepathy? It is a form of communication between minds by some means other than sensory perception.

Then what's with the God's whispering? Perhaps God helped to convey my thoughts to someone.

Now..... you must be thinking what am I trying to say here with all the mumbo jumbo above.

Ok, I have many encounters through out the years and I'm sure not the only one who experiencing it. There are times when your mind thinking of something or wanted to tell someone about your desire on certain thing, but in the end you didn't speak out and put the thought to rest. And then the next thing you know (could happen instantly or could be day(s) or week(s)) that what you wished or prayed secretly in your heart, was granted by someone! Sounds familiar???

Well I have 2 recent cases which I find it very amusing and it keeps me wondering is that what people called, telepathy? or was it God who did the work? Or perhaps it was merely a coincident?

So one day, Keith went out with my mom-in-law to a Lotte Mart (Korean convenient store) to buy some ingredients for dinner. I suddenly recalled this Korean Rice Tea which I love so much, so I thought of calling him and ask him to get it for me. But somehow for don't know what strange reason, I didn't call him but kind of hoping he could sort of 'hear' me. And he bought it. :)

Well, base on the above example, could it be telepathy? Since we are a couple for so long and perhaps our wavelength are attune to a certain degree, and that was why he get my message? Or it is just a coincident since he knows me so well over the years??? So I guess for this one it is totally arguable.

Another case just happened this week. Hubby and I made a dental appointment last month for teeth whitening and it was supposed to take place yesterday. However, due to some issues I decided to cancel the appointment. So through out the whole of last week, I was suppose to call and cancel it while Keith was away. But somehow, I kept forgetting during the day and only recall it at night. So it was delay all the way to Friday morning and I still haven't cancel the appointment.

I was on the phone with my hubby on Friday morning, and suddenly I recalled that I have not cancel the appointment, so I told him, "Oh no, I have not call to cancel the appointment", and he calmly replied, "I've cancelled it". At the back of my head I was thinking why would my hubby waste money to make an international call to cancel the dental appointment? He could have just send me a reminder via Whatsapp for the cancellation. So I asked, "Did they call you?", and then he replied, "Yes. The lady called me and ask me about you, and I told her you are my wife. The lady told me that you wish to sort of postpone the appointment. So I told her actually we want to cancel it and we will make a new appointment later.".

First, I never made the call to the dental clinic. Second, during the whole week, whenever I recall that I need to call the clinic the next day, I was actually contemplating whether to tell them that I just want to cancel the appointment or reschedule a new date. Isn't that amazing?!!??!

Do you believe telepathy exists? Or do you think it was God's lil' angel who did the message passing? 

And what was your experience?

Manner... Respect... Where Are You?

I always believe in treating people with kindness and to respect people no matter what is their professions as long they are earning an honest living.

There is absolutely no reason for us to be rude and disrespectful to anyone unless some exceptional cases. And what I meant by exceptional are as following scenarios.

That someone...

1.  Cause you the trouble and be rude to you

2.  Cause you the trouble and put the blame on you

3.  Cause you the trouble and refuse to rectify it

So if you face the above scenarios, it is up to your own discretion how you want to react towards that person. Of course I do not concede to any form of physical nor verbal abuse to any individual. But if you ever encounter anyone like I just mentioned above, at least your anger is justifiable so even if you lose your cool a little, it is understandable. After all, we are only human. But that don't mean you have to be nasty. Alright? ;)

Now, what I absolute can't stand is when the following happens but some people totally leave their manner elsewhere and behave rudely towards someone who is there to help.

That someone...

1.  Cause you trouble but is sorry and trying to rectify it

2.  Not the one who cause you the trouble but is helping to rectify the problem

3.  You make the mistake (directly or indirectly) but try to totally put the blame on others

Even if we are angry or annoyed, we must always try our best to keep our cool. We can be assertive but never be rude.

My boss told me this few days ago, 'As long we are doing things with integrity, we should not be fearful', and I totally agree with him.

One must know that, when you have done nothing wrong, and if the other party behaving rudely and talk down to you,  it will not demeaning you. It might be a little embarrassing if that person is doing that to you in front of other people coz others may not know the truth and may assume the fault is yours. Ultimately, the truth will prevail and for someone who forgets about respecting others would only project themselves to others how ugly the personalities they have. In the end, they might have win the battle but lose the war. :)

So cheer up, people! Remember, as long we are doing things with integrity, we shall not  fear.

Cheers yo!