There are times when we try to help and get involve in other people business with a good intention, more often than not, we are backfired.
Well, I know some people just don't like 3rd party meddling with their matters. It doesn't matter how good your intention is and no matter how much you do, they would not appreciate even though things did turn out well. To them it is like, "I never ask for your help. Stop being busy body and mind your own business!".
When something already happened, it is always easy for outsiders to say things like, "I would have done it differently." But come on, be real man. We can say all we want but the truth is, we wouldn't know how we would handle a situation unless we ourselves are caught in the situation. And even that, there are times, when we think back the whole situation and we realize there is a better way to do it. But what done is done.
Sometimes good intention with bad execution is simply a disaster. It could leads to a lot of unnecessary misunderstanding and argument. But then again, how do we know what is the best or right approach since we couldn't see the future nor expect how would someone react?
So the question is if you have a chance to turn back the clock, would you do the same or use a different approach, or rather not do anything at all?
Well, I know some people just don't like 3rd party meddling with their matters. It doesn't matter how good your intention is and no matter how much you do, they would not appreciate even though things did turn out well. To them it is like, "I never ask for your help. Stop being busy body and mind your own business!".
When something already happened, it is always easy for outsiders to say things like, "I would have done it differently." But come on, be real man. We can say all we want but the truth is, we wouldn't know how we would handle a situation unless we ourselves are caught in the situation. And even that, there are times, when we think back the whole situation and we realize there is a better way to do it. But what done is done.
Sometimes good intention with bad execution is simply a disaster. It could leads to a lot of unnecessary misunderstanding and argument. But then again, how do we know what is the best or right approach since we couldn't see the future nor expect how would someone react?
So the question is if you have a chance to turn back the clock, would you do the same or use a different approach, or rather not do anything at all?
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