Manner... Respect... Where Are You?

I always believe in treating people with kindness and to respect people no matter what is their professions as long they are earning an honest living.

There is absolutely no reason for us to be rude and disrespectful to anyone unless some exceptional cases. And what I meant by exceptional are as following scenarios.

That someone...

1.  Cause you the trouble and be rude to you

2.  Cause you the trouble and put the blame on you

3.  Cause you the trouble and refuse to rectify it

So if you face the above scenarios, it is up to your own discretion how you want to react towards that person. Of course I do not concede to any form of physical nor verbal abuse to any individual. But if you ever encounter anyone like I just mentioned above, at least your anger is justifiable so even if you lose your cool a little, it is understandable. After all, we are only human. But that don't mean you have to be nasty. Alright? ;)

Now, what I absolute can't stand is when the following happens but some people totally leave their manner elsewhere and behave rudely towards someone who is there to help.

That someone...

1.  Cause you trouble but is sorry and trying to rectify it

2.  Not the one who cause you the trouble but is helping to rectify the problem

3.  You make the mistake (directly or indirectly) but try to totally put the blame on others

Even if we are angry or annoyed, we must always try our best to keep our cool. We can be assertive but never be rude.

My boss told me this few days ago, 'As long we are doing things with integrity, we should not be fearful', and I totally agree with him.

One must know that, when you have done nothing wrong, and if the other party behaving rudely and talk down to you,  it will not demeaning you. It might be a little embarrassing if that person is doing that to you in front of other people coz others may not know the truth and may assume the fault is yours. Ultimately, the truth will prevail and for someone who forgets about respecting others would only project themselves to others how ugly the personalities they have. In the end, they might have win the battle but lose the war. :)

So cheer up, people! Remember, as long we are doing things with integrity, we shall not  fear.

Cheers yo!